I was dispensing with advice on a post elsewhere and hit the following question which I wanted to put to you all*:
The saying is if you love somebody set them free, if they come back they are yours.
Do you agree, is there value in the broken hearted waiting by the window for he or she to see the error of their ways and return, or should it actually be if you love somebody set them free, if they choose not to leave they are yours?
In my humble view it is the latter...
(* Out of pure interest; 'Gnac and wifey are fine!)